Well I hate to burst your bubble, there are plenty of great men out there. I see evidence of it everyday. My Dad was a top Bloke, I had 5 Brothers( one died Suddenly- 3 years ago), they are all good blokes. My Son is a great Man, he has terrific mates. My son in law is a wonderful man. There are plenty of evidence that debunks your assumption.

Have you sat down , and written out exactly what you want in a relationship, and then a list of who you need to be to attract the one that you want ?

Yes, I've written a list. Bur he doesn't exist where I live, trust me lol and I can't afford to move.

I have found in my life that whenever I adopt the attitude that something is impossoble, it usually is impossible. But, if I had a positive attitude going in, and never once let myself think I couldn't achieve something, I have been able to do what I set out to do.

I always go in with a positive attitude and come out miserable and with more emotional trauma.