all my friends are catholic with 1 couple very much more than most with priests coming to dinner every weekend etc etc sister is a nun. pray with so and so if you lost something etc.. i always felt they had sins according to god and forever had to do things to protet them from going to hell caused they were sinners.. hell no!. those people give of them selves over and above anyone i know. everyone comes first even if their sick. they wont get a plane ticket but will buy the brother in law a recliner (even tho he has money. their whole lives. he will never think he is anything but a sinner. his dissidence is so hard set? i am concerned he wont bend.the wife might if her sister the nun tells her to. as i know she has already told them about the priests and what theyve done. they are not invited any more. so examples of the s--ic cult might help. they lost two of their family members due to covid cancer quickly and they might help also. of course the docs are gods.what i have to face.