I believe in complimenting people. Man smelling good? I let him know. Absolutely beautiful woman walks by (I'm a completely straight female), I let them know they look gorgeous today. Teens being kind? I make sure they know how valued and valuable that is. Elderly person or busy parent need help putting groceries in their vehicle? I offer. Last year this lady was packing a baby on the front, a toddler on the back, twins in the cart and what was probably a 7 year old following her. She had heavy things in her cart and I had just sat down in the truck to leave. As soon as I saw her I popped out and and said hey! Can I help? "No, no I'm fine thank you. I'm fine." Okay I said and as I turned to get in she goes: "no! Wait! I'm not. I'm not fine and I could really use the help." So off I go. I've been there with TWO kids let alone 5. She loaded the kids and I loaded her stuff into the back of her SUV. She was bawling.
You never know how much ONE SMALL thing can help someone.