I have a years-long running theory as to why people are- on the whole- so poorly paired. Part of it is a social and environmental demasculinization and another part scents. We are drawn to our partners by our nose/ knows and people mask their natural scent right down to their dish detergent. There are many factors but I bite my tongue in service to other pressing matters, though human depopulation- contrary to what we're told- might be the greatest threat we face. That's why The Maestro brought up a Baby Boom recently and even intends to offer $ incentive imo.