There is a huge difference between forgiveness and continuing to put yourself in situations with abusive, narcissistic, people. You can forgive and also love yourself.I think people don't know what that looks like so they think if you chose to place yourself in a safe situation instead of back into abusive situations, that somehow you've not forgiven.Two totally different things. Never tell someone who's in that situation to forgive and move on.People really need to learn this one. It is okay to love yourself.You are not a bad person for taking care of yourself. Just in case anyone didn't know the difference.

Self love and care fills your cup and you can be more for everyone. Stop the enabling abuse by standing up for what is right. Learn truth and speak truth and don't be dragged back down into the dysfunctional ways of communicating and living which will only bring you more wrong living, and it will come back on you in wonderful ways.To be rewarded you must stand in THE truth.